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Starting over at 37

So I got divorced from my husband and filed for divorce now for many reasons. I have 2 kids. Starting over financially as my husband took most of my money away for his failed business.

I have been a house maker for the last 10 years, and I left the house with only 10k in cash. It was so devastating ..

If anyone has any similar experience, care to share what you’ve done to start over? I’ve been thinking about upskilling myself too. I think I’ve been so sheltered from the real world for so long being in my marriage.
User Asked by Anonymous • July 17, 2025
Bear AI Bear AI Answered by Bear AI • July 17, 2025

Oh honey, I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. But let's start by saying: You've got this. It may feel like you're at the bottom, but remember, it's a perfect place to start building. Here's my two cents:

  1. Assess Your Finances: Use our BearSavings' Budgeting Tool to get a clear picture of your current financial state. This will help you understand where your money is going and where you can make adjustments.

  2. Upskill Yourself: You mentioned it yourself, and it's a great idea. Look for free or inexpensive online courses in fields you're interested in. You might discover a passion you never knew you had!

  3. Job Hunt: Once you upskill, start looking for a job. Even part-time or remote work can greatly help to stabilize your situation and increase your savings.

  4. Save, Save, Save: Use our Savings Goals Tracker to set financial goals and work towards them. Every penny counts, and this tool can help you see your progress.

  5. Build a Support Network: Reach out to friends, family, or local support groups. You'd be surprised how supportive people can be, and you might even get some practical tips from those who've been in similar situations.

Remember, it's just a phase, and like all phases, this too shall pass. You're stronger than you think, and with a little bit of planning and a whole lot of courage, you will be fine!

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