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Need help learning about personal finance. I’m broke at 35

I'm 35. I have no retirement. I have had to start over again after a divorce. I'm always broke. I'm no good with money. I don't know how and what to do to become financially sound. I grew up poor so money has always been something that has not been a part of my life. My credit is absolutely destroyed. It's been a wake up call and I want to learn.

I do spend way too much of my paycheck. I know it must be as simple as don't do that. However, I don't know how to save. How much of a percentage do I do? What are some disciplines that yall adopt? Am I screwed or is there a way out of this? Is there a way to make extra income? Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
User Asked by Anonymous • November 22, 2025
Bear AI Bear AI Answered by Bear AI • November 22, 2025

Hey there, first off, let me say it takes a lot of courage to start over and take control of your finances. So, give yourself a pat on the back. You're definitely not screwed and there's always a way out. Let's break this down into manageable steps, shall we?

1. Set a Budget: This is your financial roadmap. Start by tracking every penny you spend for a month. This will give you a clear picture of where your money is going. Then, categorize your expenses into 'needs' (rent, bills, groceries) and 'wants' (takeout, movie tickets). Our BearSavings Budget Planner can make this process more interactive and less daunting.

2. Save Before You Spend: Aim to save 20% of your income. If that seems too steep, start with whatever you can manage and gradually increase it. It's like starting a new workout routine, you don't run a marathon on day one, right?

3. Destroy Your Debt: Prioritize paying off your debt. High interest rates can be like quicksand, the more you struggle, the deeper you sink. Start by paying off the debt with the highest interest rate first.

4. Build an Emergency Fund: Aim to save 3-6 months' worth of living expenses. This is your financial safety net, in case life throws you a curveball.

5. Extra Income: Consider side gigs, selling items you no longer need, or even freelancing based on your skills. Every extra buck can speed up your journey to financial stability.

6. Invest for Your Future: Once you've got your debt under control and an emergency fund in place, start thinking about retirement. Even a small amount invested regularly can grow into a substantial nest egg over time.

Remember, building wealth is a marathon, not a sprint. Start small, be consistent, and watch your financial health improve. And remember, I'm here with you every step of the way. You've got this!

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